Audrey Cameron was a woman ahead of her time and in constant devotion to the Faith of Bahá’u’lláh she loved so well. She was born in Golders Green, London. Her father, Jules, of White Russian descent, was a musical director and violinist, and her mother, Grace, a pianist, was descended from Polish aristocracy. Both parents were Jewish and her grandfather had been a rabbi.
Audrey was brought up in the Jewish Faith, although neither parent was orthodox Jew. She was one of two daughters and the family moved a great deal, as both parents were musicians and toured around the country. Their two greatest loves in their lives were their two daughters and their music. Audrey did not pursue her parents’ musical avenue, turning instead to dramatic art and subsequently becoming a very wonderful actress. She toured around the country in repertory theatre, appearing in many plays, including “Peg of My Heart” and “A Streetcar Named Desire”, where she had the lead role. It was while she was in repertory theatre in Halifax, Yorkshire, appearing in “Deep are the Roots” that she met her husband, Earl, a Bermudian and also an actor, starring in the same play in a leading role. They married in 1955, and had five children – Jane, Simon, Helen, Serena and Philippa.
It was in 1963 that Audrey first heard of the Faith, together with her husband, Earl. Roy Stines, a Baha’i from Earl’s home country of Bermuda, happened to be in London to attend the Bahá’í World Congress being held at the Royal Albert Hall. He contacted Earl, who had been a childhood friend, and asked whether they would like to accompany him to the event. As Audrey had babysitting duties, Earl went on his own. At first, he was reluctant to attend, expecting it to be, as he put it ‘a rather dull evening with a lot of half-alive attendees’. Audrey, however, had an instinct that this could somehow change their lives and she encouraged him to go. Earl has recounted that on entering the room, he knew immediately that this was something both he and Audrey could identify with, and the diverse mix of races and the buzz of excited conversation and happy faces in the auditorium enthralled him. He so wished that Audrey could have been with him. A year later both he and Audrey became Baha’is, and from that moment on she devoted her entire life to the Faith, teaching Bahá’í children’s classes for many years at the Bahá’í Centre in Knightsbridge, London, and serving as secretary of the Local Spiritual Assembly of Kensington and Chelsea.
In 1968 the whole family home-front-pioneered to Ealing, where Audrey was secretary of the Local Spiritual Assembly for eight years. She also served as secretary of the Personal Consultative Committee during that time. Regular firesides were held at the Cameron home on Friday evenings, attended by large numbers of Bahá’ís and non-Bahá’ís, and many people declared. Some of these were from the Ealing Borough, thus enabling the Ealing Community to grow and become established.
In 1976, the family moved to Welwyn-Hatfield, on the outskirts of London, where another community was formed; there had only been three Bahá’ís in the area. They were there for three years and, as a result of regular firesides and Bahá’ís visiting from all over the world, met Bahá’ís who were living in the Solomon Islands.
Knowing the importance of pioneering to the islands in the Pacific, the Cameron family were on the move again, greatly encouraged by Counsellor Suhayl Ala’i. Earl visited the Solomon Islands during 1978 with the aim of exploring a means of livelihood in these beautiful islands. The opportunity arose with the purchase of an ice cream business, made possible through the sale of their house, and in 1980 Audrey was secretary once again – this time of the Local Spiritual Assembly of Honiara, the capital. She and Earl continued tirelessly to teach the Faith, travelling together in a pickup truck to the outlying villages, often under very difficult circumstances, her good humour and spirit of sacrifice unflagging, and the love of Bahá’u’lláh eternally in her heart throughout every experience and ordeal. She continued to help anyone needing her assistance, and when she heard that a fellow Bahá’í required an architect to work in his office, she remembered that Charles Boyle, a Bahá’í living in the Henley community was an architect, and wrote to him. Not only did Charles subsequently pioneer to the Solomon Islands, but he remained there for a good number of years, going on to marry and eventually settle in Australia.
In 1989 Audrey regretfully left the Solomon Islands to be with her daughter, Philippa, who was in the final years of her education at drama school in London. After spending some time in Singapore, where Philippa also attended a drama school, she returned to Ealing, where she had many fond memories, and settled happily into community life.
It was in 1991 that she found she had the cancer that eventually confined her to bed, but her strong resolve and determination nevertheless remained undiminished. Her radiance and loving spirit continued to shine despite the pain of her illness, until finally she had to go into hospital, where she peacefully passed away on 27 January 1994.
A memorial service was held for Audrey Cameron in her beloved Ealing, attended by all her numerous friends and relatives, including many of the LSA members with whom she had served more than 20 years before.
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Jane Cameron
September 2013
Negin said:
Absolutely beautiful story. Their dedication and commitment are to be admired.
carolyn1995 said:
Lovely to read Audrey’s story, albeit brief. I have such fond memories of her from the 70s when I worked at Rutland Gate and would attend the wonderful Ealing Firesides, and several Summer Schools in France. Such a capable and caring lady… I always pass to say ‘Hello’ at Arnos Grove and like others was very happy when her good friend Margaret Watkins was buried close to her just a few months ago.
Jane Sanders said:
Many thanks, Carolyn, for your lovely comments – quite a coincidence that Margaret passed away on her birthday and is buried close by. Thanks for your ‘hello’! xx
Roxana Djalili Fontaine said:
Thelma, thank you so much for dedicating energy to this project. Jane, your honest narrative about your beloved mummy, my first Baha’i school teacher, was moving and brought back so many memories of the happiest times of my life. I love you, and always pray for the progress of dear Audrey’s soul. She was the spiritual mummy of so many people, the first instance of entry by troops were your parents fire sides. Audrey’s warm hospitality and genuine concern and empathy for others was a rare treat indeed. God bless her, so happy to see our mummies sitting and chatting together in the photo above taken around 1993 in our front room in Kensington. Priceless.
Jane Sanders said:
Roxy darling, thanks so, so much for your beautiful reminiscences of our dear mother. So many blessed memories of children’s classes and visiting your wonderful home in Kensington – your own incredible mother’s voice ringing out on my arrival, ‘Are you hungry?’ as the beautiful smells of her incredible Persian food wafted way down the corridor!! Our two Mums had a lot in common… Thanks for your prayers – we continue to miss her, but know she is doing some great work continuing to help others, as I’m sure yours is…. Love you tons xxxx
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Elizabeth A. Asbury said:
This pretty well sums up Audrey’s life but I would like to put on record the enormous debt of gratitude I feel towards Audrey and Earl for nurturing me when I was a brand new Baha’i in London, helping me to deepen in the Faith and supporting me over some very rough patches. This was until I left for Canada in early 1971. When I think that Audrey, at the time, was raising five children, holding down a part-time job, conducting weekly children’s classes, serving on national committees and as secretary of her local Assembly, I wonder to myself, “How on earth did she do it?”
Jane Sanders said:
Thanks, Elizabeth, we have fond memories of when you stayed with us in London – you were one of the family! I agree, I don’t know how she managed to do it all and even from her bed, before she passed away, she was sorting everyone out! We miss her so….
Thanks again for your kind words.
Much love
Paul Hyde-Clarke said:
This a great story of a remarkable family. I believe Audrey is distantly related to myself. I’d be very interested in finding out more if there’s any way to get in touch with you Jane.
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Peter Munro said:
Just a brief word here. I was watching a TV prog last night which featured Earl. This reminded me that in 1965, while he was filming Thunderball, I got a job driving Audrey around to various factories. I think she lived in Sheen at the time. I was a young student and my wife was pregnant. Audrey treated us almost as family and we used to take out some of her children. My wife gave birth to a girl and we named her “Serena” after Audrey’s young daughter, because she was so lovely. In fact the whole family were. I have very fond memories of them all. My wife died 7 years ago so sadly she is not around to be reminded of that wonderful period at the start of our married lives. Thank you Audrey for your kindnesses to us in 1965. We never forgot you or Serena. My condolences to the whole family on that sad loss.
Peter Munro
Derek Cockshut said:
Audrey was one of those marvellous women that we seemed to have in the Faith in the 60s. She simply seemed to radiate the qualities of being a Bahaí without thought and fill ones heart with love. Every time I met her and every time I think of her I just felt the world is a better place just because of her. May she travel in love and hope in the Worlds of God. Thank-you.
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